Tuesday, January 6, 2009

What A Girl Wants

A friend and I were discussing relationships the other night. He seems to be fed up with relationships and always getting hurt so he has decided that for 2009 he is going to take a more "love em and leave em" approach to dating. Just use them for what you need and leave before you get hurt. While I can see where he is coming from, the desire to not have your heart broken. However I know that there is so much more out there to have. And that is what I want. I want love, and I am willing to risk the heart breaks, as painful as they are, to find that love. There is someone out there who knows how to love me, the journey is just long. But someday...


1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.
11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
16. Kiss her unexpectedly.
17. Hug her from behind around the waist.
18. Tell her she's beautiful.
19. Tell her the way you feel about her.
20. Open doors for her, walk her to her car- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
21. Tell her she's your everything - only if you mean it.
22. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her
23. Make her feel loved.
24. Don't lie to her.
25. Don't cheat on her.
26. Take her ANYWHERE she wants
27. Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her.
28. Be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.
29. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold YOU too.
30. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
31. Stand up for her when others put her down
32. When walking next to each other grab her hand
33. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
34. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams
35. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
36. Take her for walks at night.
37. Always Remind her how much you love her.

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1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Wow Rach! That is a great list! You should write a book!
:) Love ya!
Hattie